A WISE FRIEND AND TEACHER RECENTLY SHARED THIS.
And as I have been a rescuer, till recently, this seems more relevant than ever………If you find you are the victim or the rescuer please take note.
ENERGY BETWEEN THE VICTIM AND THE RESCUER.
When you sit in ‘rescuer mood’ you enable the other person to stay in the ‘victim mode.” This is nether good for either one. In the rescuer there is a part that needs to be needed or wanted.
When we recognize this in ourselves, we can move into the ‘carer mode’, and then ask the tough questions to enable the victim : For example
“Are you ready to own your life and do the work to see what is really happening here”
When we hold this space as a carer with an open heart, you offer an energetic invitation to the ‘victim’ to be able to move to ‘vulnerable’ and start to heal the hurts ( perceived or otherwise)…